It was funny when I watch CSI and saw a hispanic lady saying “I am not upset, only you, white guys say ‘I am upset’. for me, yes, I am pissed off!”
some comments from one of my “friends” made me very uncomfortable, heretoforth, it pissed me off. I am not surprised that he lied again. When I said he lied, I mean he intentionally delivered the misleading information in his comments.
Well, I could bear with some trash talk on the internet, as well as some exaggerations. However, when we step into some serious topics, we could either shut up and listen, or we have to make a clear delivery of the message. This is where I saw him lying. I know he is lying, for sure. What has frustrated me is I could not pull out the full story nor could I tell him.
I just got such a feeling, by saying that, he doesn’t worth my words, not any more. Let’s take a look at what he said. He is in the US, enjoying his work, his life, his new car, his dream in which there will be a new house, a wife, a few kids maybe. Now he is telling people in China, “don’t come to the States coz China is better…”, “US is too bad…” “chinese student in CS major will have a gloomy future here in the States.”
My thoughts were like “FXXK you.” Where is your integrity? how do you explain your choice in your career development, your life vs. what you are talking about? If the States is so bad, why don’t you just go home? If the US has brought you so much great stuff, why didn’t you just admit it? You sit back in your chair, enjoy your work, your $$, your lifestyle here. Now you tell people in China don’t come coz it’s bad??? I understand there are some pros and cons, some pretty hot debate on the residence issue, however it has nothing to do with lying!
I feel too embrassed to quote his words here. I just can’t believe, his behavior far derives from his words. Now here comes my next question, how could I trust him anymore? Lier. If he deserves two words, that’s cheap lier.
Time to throw him into the trash can, and sealed it. I am not gonna have a single word for him, not anymore.
Please bear with my English, I am not able to type in any Chinese for this whole week.